Sunday, October 10, 2010

Starting The Conversation

Having a healthy love life is an essential part of being in a healthy relationship. But when it comes to talking about sex, nobody is born with the gift of gab: we blush, we cringe, we'd sooner discuss the economy. But if you begin the conversation with the things you love about your partner, then it becomes easier to talk about the ways in which you express that love, including sex. It's called a "constructive compliment".

For example, if foreplay isn't lasting long enough, tell your partner something like, "I love it when you kiss me; I just want those kisses to go on and on."

That is way better than saying.. 

"You don't understand women; you just go straight for the goods!"

The key to any relationship talk is to maintain a spirit of positive communication. You only have one love life and you  deserve to live it to the fullest. Take it from me: a sex talk today keeps the sex-doctor away :)

...what I read

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Burn Calories with Minimal Effort

continued from Borneo Love ...

26. AVOID EATING LUNCH AT YOUR DESK
If you must, have a quick bite, then go for a short walk.

27. ALWAYS CARRY A SNACK
Try nuts, low-calorie bars, or a piece of fruit. Eating frequently keeps your metabolism up (and reduces the odds that you'll wind up a victim of the vending machine).

28. WEAR STILETTOS
Every few days, wear the highest high heels.. They help tone your legs because they work different muscles in your calves and thighs.

29. RELAX
Stress causes the body to release cortisol, which causes more calories to be stored as fat, especially in your abdomen.

30. WATCH LESS TELEVISION
Adults who halves their television viewing time (by using an electronic lock-out system) not only burned an extra 119 calories per day, but did so without altering what they ate.

31. LIFT UP
Rise up on the balls of your feet and then lower yourself down again.

32.  DRINK A FEW CUPS OF STRONG GREEN TEA EVERY DAY
In addition to caffeine, green tea contains catechin polyphenols, plant chemicals that may also boost metabolism, according to a study.

33. HEAT THINGS UP
Some studies show that some spicy food can temporarily increase metabolism.

34. WORK YOUR LEGS A BIT
Do a small knee lift if you're stuck in traffic... almost like you're marching in place.

35. EAT SALMON
Salmon eaters lost significantly more weight than beef eaters, even though the calories consumed were equal.

36. EAT THE PEEL
It takes the body more energy to break down fiber-rich foods, like the skins of fruits & vegetables.

37. GET BUSY
Most couples burn an average of 300 calories an hour while they're having sex :))

38. DON'T SNACK IN THE CAR
It's a hotbed of mindless eating and excess calorie consumption.

39. SWING YOUR ARMS
The more parts of your body that you use simultaneously, the more you burn.

40. CLEAN UP
When you're wiping down the counter or washing the car, really stretch out.. Use both hands and make large circular motions.

41. SIT UP
When watching TV, get in the habit of holding your body straight.

42. DON'T FORGET DAIRY
Low-fat dairy inhibits fats from being stored.

... above all, be happy, think positive and chill :)

..what I read

Friday, February 26, 2010

Shoe Diet

Finally Hollywood beauties have found an eating plan they enjoy following - the SHOE DIET. There are no recipes or nutrition tips, just the promise that meeting your weight-loss goals will be rewarded with a trip to your favourite shoe store.

Shoes actually do have the ability to control how we feel and give us the strength to accomplish pretty much anything. If you skip the work-break packet of chips & soft drink, at around RM4.00 a day, you'll have RM100.00 to spend on stilettoes in five weeks!

more tips here !